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Instruction 1
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Instruction 2
Describe your resolutions in specific terms. Instead of "I don't want to be lazy," opt for "I want to exercise regularly" or "I will cut down on my television watching."ÖÆ¶¨¾ßÌåµÄÄ¿±ê£¬²»ÒªËµ¡°ÎÒ²»ÏëÔÙÄÇôÀÁ¶èÁË¡±£¬¶øËµ¡°ÎÒÒª¼á³Ö¶ÍÁ¶¡±»òÕß¡°ÎÒÒª¼õÉÙ¿´µçÊÓµÄʱ¼ä¡±¡£
Instruction 3
Break down large goals into smaller ones. For instance, commit to losing weight by resolving to join a gym and improve your eating habits.°Ñ´óÄ¿±ê·Ö³ÉСĿ±ê¡£ÀýÈ磬°Ñ¼õ·ÊµÄ¼Æ»®·Ö³É¾öÐÄÈ¥ÌåÓý¹ÝºÍ¸ÄÉÆÒûʳϰ¹ß¡£
Instruction 4
Find alternatives to a behavior that you want to change, and make this part of your resolution plan. So you want to quit smoking but you smoked to relax yourself? What other forms of relaxation are available to you?ΪÄãÏëÒª¸Ä±äµÄÐÐΪѰÕÒ¡°Ìæ´úÆ·¡±£¬²¢ÇÒ½«´Ë×÷ΪÄãµÄ¾öÐļƻ®Ö®Ò»¡£±ÈÈçÄãÏëÒª½äÑÌ£¬¿ÉÊÇÎüÑÌ¿ÉÒÔÈÃÄã·ÅËÉ×Ô¼º£¬ÄÇô¾ÍÏëÏ뻹ÓÐʲôÆäËû¿ÉÒÔÁîÄã·ÅËɵÄÊÂÇé°É¡£
Instruction 5
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