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Have you ever wondered how some people always seem to see the sunny side of things? How missed flights can turn into adventures, bad directions can deliver them to exciting new locales, lost opportunities lead them to new learning, and unexpected changes in plans leave them feeling more spontaneous than flustered? How does that work, exactly?ÄãÓÐûÓÐÏë¹ý£¬ÓÐЩÈËËÆºõ×ÜÊÇ¿´µ½ÊÂÇé»ý¼«ÀÖ¹ÛµÄÒ»Ãæ¡£´í¹ýº½°à»á³ÉΪһ´Î´óðÏÕ£»´íÎóµÄ·½Ïò£¬È´¿ÉÒÔÖ¸Òýµ½ÈÃÈËÐ˷ܲ»Òѵĵط½£»´íʧÁËÒ»´Î»ú»á£¬È´ÄÜѧµ½ÐÂÊÂÎ¼Æ»®ÍâµÄ±ä¶¯£¬´øÀ´µÄ²»ÊÇÐĻţ¬¶øÊÇ×ÔÔڵĸоõ¡£Èç´ËÀÖ¹Û£¬Õâ°ã¿ìÀÖ£¬¾¿¾¹ÊÇÈçºÎÁ¶³ÉµÄ£¿
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Make a written (or mental) list of things you are thankful for, from very small to very big and anywhere in between. To really boost your spirits, set a number (like 100) and then just keep jotting everything down til you reach it. It's amazing what the mind remembers when focused!д³ö£¨»ò˼¿¼³ö£©ÄãÒª¸ÐлµÄÊÂÇéÒ»·ÝÁÐ±í£¬Éú»îÖеĴóСʶ¼¿ÉÒÔ¡£ÎªÁËÄÜÕæÕýÆðµ½Õñ·Ü¾«Éñ£¬ÒªÖƶ¨ºÃÊýÄ¿£¨Èç100¸ö£©£¬Ö®ºóÔÚÄã´ïµ½Ä¿±êǰ£¬ÄãÒª¼ÇÏÂËùÓеÄÒ»ÇС£¾«Éñ¼¯ÖÐʱÄÔ×Ó»á¼ÇµÃºÜ¶à£¡
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Pay special attention to things you don't normally "see," like the expression on kids' faces when they're playing, the sound birds are making in the background, or a little breeze.¶ÔһЩͨ³£¡°¿´²»µ½¡±µÄÊÂÇ飬Ҫ¸øÓèÌØ±ð¹Ø×¢£¬ÀýÈ红×ÓÍæË£Ê±µÄÁ³²¿±íÇ飬Äñ¶ù·É¹ýµÄÉùÒô£¬»¹Óдµ¹ýµÄ΢·ç¡£
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Being thankful for what we already have is a tried and true way to feel better. Sometimes we get caught up thinking of what else is out there, when we have so many things to be grateful for at any given moment.ÓµÓкóÒªÂú»³¸Ð¶÷Ö®ÐÄ£¬ÕâÊÇÒ»ÖÖÈÃÄã¸Ð¾õ¸üºÃ¡¢ÕæÊµ¶ø¿É¿¿µÄ·½·¨¡£ÓÐʱºò£¬ÈËÃÇÓµÓÐÁËijЩ¶«Î÷£¬È´»¹Ïë×ÅÆäËü£¬µ«ÆäʵÔÚÈκÎÌØ¶¨µÄʱ¿Ì£¬ÎÒÃǶ¼ÒªÎª×Ô¼ºËùÓµÓеĶø¸Ðµ½ÐÀο¡£
Help Someone Else°ïÖúËûÈË
Helping others takes the focus off our own ego and needs, and helps channel our energy into creating a better world for others. Studies show that helping others has multiple surprising benefits to our health and well-being.°ïÖú±ðÈË£¬ÄÜÈÃ×Ô¼º·ÅÏÂ×ÔÎҺ͸öÈËÐèÇó¡£ÁíÍ⣬°ïÖúËûÈËÒ²»áÒýµ¼³öÎÒÃÇΪËûÈË´´ÔìÃÀºÃÊÀ½çµÄ¶¯Á¦¡£Ñо¿±íÃ÷£¬°ïÖúËûÈ˶ÔÎÒÃǵÄÉíÐͼÓкܶàÒâÏë²»µ½µÄºÃ´¦¡£
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This one is easy. Change your lens. Make a conscious decision to see the positive, to be kind to others, to be grateful, and to be nice to yourself.Õâ¸öºÜ¼òµ¥£¬Ö»ÒªÄã×ö³ö¸Ä±ä¡£ÄãµÃÖ÷¶¯µØÏò»ý¼«µÄÒ»Ãæ¿¿Â££¬¶ÔËûÈËÓѺ㬶à¸Ðл×Ô¼º£¬¶Ô×Ô¼ººÃµã¡£
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Smiling is another time-tested way to feel more optimistic. Even if you "fake it til you make it," and smile when you don't *really* feel like it, your brain thinks you feel better. People who see others smiling also feel more positive. Win, win! ΢ЦҲÊÇÒ»ÖÖ¾¹ýʱ¼ä¿¼Ñé¡¢ÈÃÈ˸üÀֹ۵ķ½·¨¡£¼´±ãÄãһֱҪαЦ¡¢¸Ð¾õ²»µ½×Ô¼ºÔÚЦ£¬ÄãµÄ´óÄÔÒ²»áÓкõĸоõ¡£ÈËÃÇ¿´µ½ËûÈ˶Ô×Ô¼ºÐ¦£¬Ò²»á³äÂúÁ¦Á¿¡£Õâ¾ÍÊÇ˫ӮµÄ½á¹û£¡
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Proactively look for positive stories and news sources that highlight all the good in the world, like these sites for positive news and ideas.Ö÷¶¯Ñ°ÕÒһЩÊÀ½ç¸÷µØ»ý¼«ÀÖ¹ÛµÄÐÂÎÅ£¬ÈçÄÇЩÓÐÕýÃæµÄÐÂÎźͻý¼«¹ÛµãµÄÍøÕ¾¡£
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Pick something easy, quick, and ideally a bit fun. Even small chores work. Make a little list, check them off as you do them, and feel the accomplishment endorphins kick in!ѡһЩ¼òµ¥¡¢¿ì½ÝÇÒÓÐÀÖȤµÄÄ¿±ê£¬Ò»Ð©Ð¡¼ÒÎñÒ²¿ÉÒÔ³ÉΪÕâÑùµÄÄ¿±ê¡£×öÒ»¸öÄ¿±ê±í£¬Ã¿Íê³ÉÒ»¸ö£¬¾Í»®µôÒ»¸ö£¬×îºó¾ÍÄܸÐÊܳɹ¦¸ÐÊܵijå»÷£¡
Remember, Almost Everything Is A Choice¼Çס£¬Ò»ÇнÔÊÇ»ú»á
You can choose your viewpoint, what you focus on, you reaction to a situation, your attitude toward people and events, and almost anything else. While bigger changes may require more planning and deliberation, they also are choices; you control your destiny.Äã¿ÉÒÔѡһ¸öÄã¹Ø×¢µÄ¹Ûµã¡¢¶ÔÒ»¸öÇé¿öµÄ·´Ó³¡¢¶ÔÈË»òʵĿ´·¨£¬»òÊÇÆäËüÈκÎÒ»¼þÊ¡£´ó¸Ä±äÐèÒª¸ü¶àµÄÉî˼ÊìÂÇ£¬ÕâЩÊÂÇé¾ÍÊÇÄãµÄ»ú»á¡£ÒòΪ£¬ÃüÔËÔÚÄãÊÖÖС£
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Getting out and about in nature -- or even focusing more deeply on everyday things you see outdoors -- helps remind us that we're all in this journey together. Seeing the amazing intracies in even the tiniest creatures can help refocus appreciation.³öÍâ×ß×ߣ¬ÖÃÉí×ÔȻ֮ÖУ¨»òÕßÉîÉî¸ÐÊÜÿÌìÄÇÃÅÍâ·¢ÉúµÄµãµãµÎµÎ£©£¬»½ÆðÎÒÃÇÓë×ÔÈ»µÄͬÐС£Ð¡ÉúÎïÓдóÖǻۣ¬Òò´ËÎÒÃÇÒ²»áÖØÐ¶®µÃ¸Ðл£¬¸Ðл×ÔÈ»¡£
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