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1. You are a chronic complainerÄãÊǸö¸ºÄÜÁ¿µÄ±§Ô¹Õß
If you always see the bad side, then you might not see the opportunities around you. When you miss opportunities, you inevitably lose money.Èç¹û×ÜÊÇ¿´µ½»µµÄÄÇÒ»Ãæ£¬ÄÇô¾Í»áʧȥºÜ¶à»ú»á£¬Ò»µ©»ú»á¶¼Ê§È¥ÁË£¬Ç®¿Ï¶¨¾Í׬²»µ½À²¡£
For example, if you are too busy complaining to yourself about how your co-worker sucks, you might not think that you would be a great fit for that new project that just came out. Yes, the one that would boost your resume and possibly lead to a promotion. Opportunity lost.±ÈÈçÄãÒ»Ö±¶¼±§Ô¹Í¬ÊÂÃǶàôµÄûÓã¬Ò²Ðí¾ÍÏë²»µ½Æäʵ×Ô¼º·Ç³£ÊʺÏÐÂÏîÄ¿¡£¶Ô£¬¾ÍÊÇÄǸöÄÜÕ¹ÏÖÄãʵÁ¦´øÀ´ÉýÖ°»ú»áµÄÐÂÏîÄ¿¡£¿Éϧû¿©¡£
2. You think you would never spend this much money, and then spend itÄã¾õµÃ×Ô¼º¾ø²»»á»¨ÄÇô¶àÇ®£¬È»ºó»¨ÁË¡£
My friend and NYT best-selling author Ramit Sethi likes making fun of people who think they will never spend, e.g. $30,000 on a wedding. But when time comes, and it¡¯s their turn to get married, they spend it.ÎÒÅóÓѺ͡¶Å¦Ô¼Ê±±¨¡·³©Ïú×÷¼ÒRamit Sethiϲ»¶È¡Ð¦ÄÇЩ×ܾõµÃ×Ô¼º²»»á»¨ÄÇô¶àÇ®µÄÈË£¬±ÈÈ绨3ÍòÃÀÔª³ï°ì»éÀñ¡£µ«ÂÖµ½ËûÃǽá»éµÄʱºò£¬Ëƺõ»¨µÄÒ²²»ÉÙŶ¡£
I¡¯m not criticizing spending money on your wedding here. I¡¯m just saying that had you accounted for the ¡°having a big wedding¡± scenario, you might have saved more in the past, and hence not need to get into credit card debt.ÎÒ²»ÊÇ˵²»¸ÃÔÚ»éÀñÉÏ»¨Ç®¡£ÎÒÖ»ÊÇ˵Èç¹ûÄãÒѾ¿¼ÂÇÁËÒ»·ù¡°ÓиöÊ¢´ó»éÀñ¡±µÄ³¡¾°£¬Äã¾ÍÓ¦¸Ã¿ªÊ¼½ÚÔ¼ÓÃÇ®£¬ÕâÑùÒÔºó²Å²»ÖÁÓڳɿ¨Å«¡£
3. You don¡¯t negotiateÄã²»»¹¼Û
From negotiating the price of your car, to negotiating your salary, you have a lot of potential to save thousands of dollars. Yet beware, negotiating is not something most people are skilled at. I recommend buying books and then spending 1000x more time actually practicing the books¡¯ teachings with a friend.ÎÞÂÛÊÇÂò³µ»¹ÊÇ̸ÂÛн×Ê£¬Äã¶¼ÓпÉÄÜȥʡһ´ó±ÊÇ®¡£Òª¼Çס£¬ÌÖ¼Û»¹¼Û²¢²»ÊǴ󲿷ÖÈ˶¼Éó¤µÄÊÂÇé¡£ÎÒ½¨ÒéÂò±¾ÀàËÆµÄÊ飬ȻºóºÍ×Ô¼ºµÄÅóÓѰÑÊéÀïµÄ¼¼ÇÉĬĬÁ·Ï°¼¸Ç§´Î°É¡£
That¡¯s how you¡¯ll walk into a negotiation with confidence and ready to tackle anything that comes your way.ÕâÑùÄã¾ÍÄÜ×ÔÐŵĿªÊ¼ÌÖ¼Û»¹¼Û£¬ÈÃÒ»Çж¼¾¡ÔÚÄãµÄÕÆ¿Ø¡£
4. You think short-term vs. long-term¶ÌÆÚ/³¤ÆÚ¼Æ»®
We often don¡¯t really take into account the effect of our actions in the long run. For example, you not negotiating a $5k increase in salary does not just cost you $5k this year, but maybe next year as well.ÎÒÃÇÍùÍù²»»á¿¼ÂÇ×Ô¼ºµÄÐÐΪÔÚ³¤Ô¶Ê±ÆÚµÄÓ°Ïì¡£±ÈÈ磬Äã²»»áÒªÇóÕÇÎåǧÃÀÔªµÄнˮ£¬Ò²Ã»ÓÐÒâʶµ½½ñÄê²»ÒªÇó£¬Ã÷ÄêÒ²»áûÓС£
In your next job interview, the employer will try to pay you according to your past salary. Your negotiating position will start from $5k less than what it could have.ÄãµÄÏÂÒ»¸öÃæÊÔ£¬ÀϰåÒ²»áÊÔ×Ű´Õվɹ¤×ÊÀ´¸¶Ð½Ë®¡£ÄãÖÁÉÙ¿ÉÒÔÒªÇóÕÇнÎåǧÃÀ½ð£¬ÕâÑù²Å²»»á±È±¾¿ÉÄõ½Êֵĵ͡£
5. You think ¡°I can¡¯t do it¡± instead of ¡°How can I do it?¡±Äã×ܾõµÃ¡°ÎÒ×ö²»µ½¡±¶ø·Ç¡°ÎÒÈçºÎÈ¥×ö¡±£¿
You can make more money at your current job. You can negotiate more, or improve your skills and then ask for a raise. Or, you could make more money on the side. Or, you can start your own business.Äã¿ÉÒÔÔÚÏÖÓеŤ×÷ÉÏ׬ȡ¸ü¶àµÄÇ®¡£Äã¿ÉÒÔ¹µÍ¨ÐÉ̸ü¶à£¬Ìá¸ßÄãµÄ¼¼ÄÜÈ»ºóÒªÇóÕÇн¡£»òÕßÊÇ¿ÉÒԸɵ㸱ҵ£¬ÔÙ»òÕß×ÔÖ÷´´Òµ°É¡£
The options are infinite. The more you¡¯re stuck on ¡°can¡¯t¡±, the more you¡¯ll be losing money that you could have earned had you not had this bad ¡°can¡¯t¡± habit.Ñ¡ÔñÊDz»¶¨µÄ¡£Äã±»¡°²»ÄÜ¡±À¦°óµÃÔ½¶à£¬Ñø³ÉÁË¡°²»ÄÜ¡± µÄϰ¹ß£¬ÄÇô¾Í»áʧȥԽ¶à±¾¿É׬µ½µÄ½ðÇ®¡£
6. You avoid saying ¡°no¡±Ñ§²»»á˵¡°²»¡±
Your sister asks you for money. She never gives the money back, but you still just can¡¯t say ¡°no.¡±ÄãÃÃÃÃÎÊÄã½èÇ®£¬´ÓÀ´²»»¹£¬Ä㻹ÊDz»»á˵¡°²»¡±¡£
You keep lending money, or buying dinner for your friends, just because saying ¡°no¡± is easier than paying. I¡¯m not saying that ¡°no¡± should come easy. But I am proposing to be conscious about why you do what you do.Äã×ÜÊǽèÇ®»òÕßÇëÅóÓѳԷ¹£¬Ö»ÊÇÒòΪ˵²»±È¸¶Ç®Òª¼òµ¥¡£ÎÒ²»ÊÇ˵¾Ü¾ø¿ÉÒÔ¼òµ¥£¬ÎÒÖ»Êǽ¨ÒéÄãÐèÒªÒâʶµ½×Ô¼ºÎªÊ²Ã´Òª×öÕâ¼þÊ¡£
7. You confuse your account balance with your self-worthÄã»ìÏýÁËÒøÐдæ¿îºÍ×ÔÎÒ¼ÛÖµ
The balance on your account is just a number. Yet, we tend to be emotional with that number. When this balance is not up to our standards, we may feel shame and self-pity.ÄãÒøÐеÄǮֻÊǸöÊý×Ö£¬µÄÈ·ÎÒÃǶÔÄǸöÊý×ÖÓиÐÇé¡£Ò»µ©´ï²»µ½Ò»¸ö±ê×¼¾Í»á¾õµÃ¶ªÈ˺ÍÄÑÊÜ¡£
That¡¯s exactly what overweight¨Cor even thin¨Cpeople feel when on the scale. The number on the scale feels like it describes their self-worth, when it doesn¡¯t!Õâ¾ÍÊÇÄÇЩ³ÆÌåÖØµÄÅÖ×Ó»òÊÝ×ÓÃǵÄÏë·¨¡£³ÆÉÏÃæµÄÊý×ÖËÆºõÏÔʾÁËËûÃǵļÛÖµ£¬µ«Êµ¼Ê²¢Ã»Óа¡¡£
The result of this confusion is that you might be afraid to even open up those new bills. Or, you might avoid dealing with your debt because it¡¯s just way too scary to do so. But the good news is that it¡¯s just a number¨Cit doesn¡¯t have anything to do with who you are.ÕâÑùµÄ»ìÏýÖ»»á´øÀ´Ò»¸öÂé·³£¬¾ÍÊÇÄã»áº¦ÅÂÈ¥»¨Ç®¡£»òÕßÖ»ÊÇÒòΪÄ㺦ŶøÔÙÒ²²»ÏëÈ¥´¦ÀíÇ·¿îÎÊÌâÁË¡£µ«Æäʵ£¬Õâ¸öÊý×Ö¡ª¡ªÕæµÄ¸úÄãÊÇʲôÈËûÓÐÈκιØÏµ¡£
8. You buy stuff without understanding whyÄã×ÜÂòЩĪÃûÆäÃîµÄ¶«Î÷
In Money: A Love Story author Kate Northrup urges us to understand what made us make each purchase. First, we look at our credit card statement. Were our purchases good ones, or are there any purchases that we would have been better off without?In Money: ¡¶½ðÇ®£ºÒ»¸ö°®Çé¹ÊÊ¡·µÄ×÷Õß Kate Northrup ÒªÇóÎÒÃǶÔÿһ±Ê»¨Ïú¶¼ÐÄÖª¶ÇÃ÷¡£Ê×ÏÈÎÒÃÇÒª¿´¿´ÐÅÓÿ¨¶î¶È¡£ÎÒÃÇÊDz»ÊÇÔÚÂòºÃ¶«Î÷£¬»¹ÊÇÕâЩ¶«Î÷¿ÉÓпÉÎÞ£¿
Once we complete this step, we move on to step two. How did we feel when we made each purchase? If you actually do this step, you might find out that the purchases you made while feeling bad, needy, or lacking, are not the ones you are proud of.Ò»µ©Íê³ÉÁËÕâÒ»²½£¬¾ÍÀ´µ½Á˵ڶþ²½£¬ÂòÿһÑù¶«Î÷µÄʱºòÊÇʲô¸Ð¾õ£¿Èç¹ûÄãÕæµÄ×öµ½ÁËÕâÒ»²½£¬Ò²Ðí»á·¢ÏÖÂòÕâ¸öÈÃÄãÓеãÄÑÊÜ¡¢¾½ÆÈ»òÕßȱǮÁË£¬¶ø²»ÊÇÈÃÄã½¾°Á¡£
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